Are Libra men terrible at relationships and dating? A lot of women seem to have problems with them...?

You're not they only one confused. We libras think too much. We have this on going battle with ourselves about who we are and about life. Libras get this stereotype of being materialistic, but there is so much going on underneath the surface. We are constantly looking for balance in our lives, so if you tip the scales we'll toss you out. About the lying, it is with good intentions. Libras hate conflict. And if you are one of those people who freak out and yell when you get upset, we will do anything to avoid that. The best way to work things out is with calm rational conversation. It's best you stay away from libras if you can't handle them, because we have enough trouble handling ourselves. And that whole thong about not putting any effort into relationships is true with any relationship when it comes to friends, family, or lovers. If we feel you shrinking back away from us then we will give you your space or think you might not like us or your getting tired/bored with us. And we're scared to death of commitment.